I understand how you feel, Gigi. I had an experience very similar to that when I tried MeetMe.com a long time ago that I remember very well:
She and I met back in early 2014...she randomly messaged me first, saying I had beautiful eyes. And she was actually responding to my messages, unlike the vast majority of other folks on that website. Private messages lead to texting, which lead to phone calls. I thought I had met someone amazing! She was sweet, understanding, patient and, which is more, we had the same main areas of interest (video games, movies, and music).
Then suddenly she started taking AGES to text back...it took her fucking DAYS to finally tell me that she was dealing with a financial situation that was making it difficult for her to make ends meet and stay in her apartment at that time. After things "calmed down", she told me that we should try video chatting on ooVoo. But EVERY fucking time we arranged to do it, she would either:
A. Fall asleep not after two minutes of conversation.
B. Show up one to one-and-a-half hours late (long after I had given up and walked away from my computer!)
C. Never show up at all (half of the time with ZERO explanation as to why)
Or D. Cancel on me at the last fucking minute due to tiredness or an urgent situation coming up.
And when I confronted her about it, all she could do was tell me about how she only had so much time in the day to talk and how she was "burnt the fuck out constantly after work". Even though the distance between us had grown to a point that I was lucky to receive one FaceBook message from her in a day (usually just something stupid like "Hi, David!" and that's it) - CHYEAH, RIGHT! Sorry, but NOBODY is THAT fucking busy! People make time for the people they really want to talk to and she FAILED to do that for me, so I deleted her from FaceBook and sent her a message explaining why.
But instead of actually, you know, OWNING UP to her mistake like an ADULT and, you know, ADMITTING that she wasn't as interested in talking to me as she claimed to be in the beginning, she sent me a series of text messages essentially telling me that it was all my fault, insulted me about it like a child and that I was "ridiculous" for deleting her from my life the way I did. When I responded, attempting to converse further, I never received a response.
And when I spoke to her a couple of months later, she STILL couldn't own up to the fact that she fucked up with me! So, after seeing the kind of person she really was, I finally deleted her from MeetMe (which admittedly I should have done MUCH earlier on) - I guess some people just can't fucking swallow their pride for ANYTHING!
Then several months later, I check out her FB profile to find that she was engaged to some Hispanic doofus (no offense intended towards Hispanics in general) and that she had moved to Arlington, Virginia. I won't lie...it REALLY pissed me off to see that she was enjoying the taste of a loving relationship with someone else to such a grandiose extent and apparently felt so sure that this man was her true love. Because romance is what I originally had in mind for she and I when we first met.
But I go to her FB now and, lo and behold, what do I see?! A profile picture of a VERY sullen-looking face (and obviously trying to hide it, LOL) and a Relationship Status reading SINGLE. So, I guess her self-absorption ruined that relationship too...now, isn't karma a bitch? :P
