I Need to Vent

@Paleandpolluted86: so a person in your age group potentially divorced with a daughter has you judging him if he were to try to talk to someone he found to be pretty? 🤔

@Paleandpolluted86: oh 🤔

@Paleandpolluted86: devils advocate here. If a 70 yr old man is in a relationship with a 50 yr old woman, that is inappropriate? He's old enough to be her father.

@Diggler: good point but that doesn't seem as bad to me. I look young too. When he first met me I could of passed for a teen and was very timid.

@Paleandpolluted86: that's just in your head though, he might see that youre 30

@MartinTheFirst: No I was 25 when I first met and others have commented that they thought I was early twenties when I was 28. He doesn't look as much now probably heard I'm 30 lol

@Paleandpolluted86: there's no question that some scenarios are different than others, which I think further proves my point, that nothing is ever black and white. There are definitely pervs out there, and they prey on the vulnerable. However, not everyone who notices an attractive young woman or man, or an older man or woman, qualifies as a perv. I will even go so far as to say that just because a man or woman looks at a young teen, and finds them attractive, it does not mean that they see them as a sexual conquest. It's just like looking at a beautiful baby or a child and admiring their beauty. It's not dirty or perverse.....in most....MOST cases. There are of course exceptions, but we can only pray that those exceptions are few and far between in comparison to the decent people who are innocent in all of this. It's terrible that we now live in a society where we have to be so suspicious of everyone because of what a minority of perverts have done, but unfortunately, we do have to be cautious, and as a father of two little girls, I can't, and won't fault you for that. If anything, I encourage it.