So hard to find good friends in the modern day as a woman

We need to hold eachother accountable
Women need to hold women accountable or cut them off
I'm not dealing with women who you have, 1 or two hiccups with you and they are ready to cut you off, but they allow their man to dog them out daily.
So their logic really is "I value a man and having a man more than i do about a female friendship" and that's doesn't make any sense logically.

I'm done dealing with women who are jealous that i have healthier and more beneficial relationships with men then them(even though i have been through the ringer with past relationships before that's why i don't allow bullshit) and being bullied for being "picky" and "choosy" 😑

I'm tired of women trying to compete with me covertly/not covertly
I'm tired of women who don't value the softness, tenderness, complexity of having healthy loving female, feminine friendships, because when we come together, we all create something so beautiful and loving and i love that for us all 🥰that's what life is, coming together as people and making the world a better place, enriching eachothers lives with the time we do have here.

I need some new female friends, but it's so hard to come together with someone else like minded.
Like minded in upbringing, values, finding a woman who values female saftey and won't put you in a comprimising situations, finding a girl who respects girl code, like umm not dating your ex or your boyfriend!
Dating is a mindfucking mindfield and so are friendships
Ughh i just hate this!!!!