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Need to vent...!

I'm raging!!!!


It's 2.23am and I'm f***ING awake!

Yesterday was incredible I went back to my flat with my dog leaving my partner at his with our son, I haven't slept quite so well.

Spent the Saturday with my mum, when I returned to my partner's I had a lovely evening with him and our son.

The sister crept out of the house at whatever time.

As the evening drew to a close I put our son to bed, after we finished 9 perfect strangers; my partner was tired, I told him to go to bed.

I put the bottles to sterilise, wiped down the surfaces and cleared the clutter, showered and got into bed around 11.38pm.

Someone either the bf or both of them get in.

Door slamming, keys thrown. Their bedroom door opens and closes back to back about 6 times without a minute or more of a break in between.

WTF&#£+!!!!!

It woke my son up. The anger is high. I start trying to calm him down, whilst trying to temper my energy.

But the door goes again, this time waking my partner, I say to him I don't know why that door leeps opening and closing like a knocking shop, but it's pissing me off it's woken our son up.

He rolls over and goes back to sleep. ( I think he was still sleeping tbh just awake enough to grunt)

As the time goes on it approaches 1.56am whoever it is wakes my son up for a second time.

So I jump up out of bed and ask whoever was racing round the corner.

"Erm is there a reason for the back and forth with the door?"

It's the bf, "I just got out the shower...I just got in from work!"

"Yes and it's 2am and you've woken Myles up 2x now!"

*Pause*

*I'm sorry!"

I don't respond i turn and return to bed. I hear the door shut for the final time.

And now here I am.

I'm so fed up of this situation.
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How hard is it to close a door quietly ffs?

Sounds like passive/aggrassive attention seeking to me
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@OogieBoogie I've been quite vocal here about this situation and generally speaking I don't think this will change. They are just rude and it's becoming a situation that feels like a pressure pot for me.

My partner working from home and being here with me 24/7 doesn't help. Especially as work is allowing him to be sociable and he occasionally travels for work.

Unfortunately I haven't been meeting up with other people as friends don't want to come here due to how uncomfortable I am.

So my days are just spent talking to baby and dog.

Yes there have been other things bothering me but this really made me boil over.