Why no one likes me I'm 20 yo female, I honestly would say I'm like a 6.5/10 or sometimes a 7,...

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Well, it has been my experience that most women sell their looks lower than the actual truth.
I blame society.
Women are so socially pummeled into a subservient position when it comes to looks or sexuality. God don't get me started on that one. Uhgg!!!
So I am thinking that if you say you are a 6.5 - 7 that may actually be less than accurate and you may truthfully be closer to a 9.75.
If this is true I got your problem covered.

When I was married, my wife was a 22,000 on a scale from 1 - 10. She was extremely pretty.
Not just my opinion. I was witness to many a fool going goo goo over her right in front of me. LOL.
But, she hadn't dated much at all before i met her. Not that she did more after I met her. LOL
Any ways, most guys are intimidated by woman that are to attractive. They see them as way out of their league and therefore only choose to admire from a far rather than find out they don't measure up. Most guys that do approach the very pretty women are jerks that think they deserve arm candy to that degree because they are special.

So I would suggest you work on starting conversations with strangers.
Most of the guys you would want to meet are probably worried your out of their range and they have no business attempting to talk to you.
Also, I could have completely mis-understood the question. It does happen.
Good luck.

dimfok · 26-30, M

Just one more thought because many voices have already been heard. When I was slightly younger (18-21 pretty much) I was quite popular. Then from 23 to about a few days ago (I’m 26) it was just downhill. Today I’m actually glad about this downhill because things are going well with a girl I’ve had a crush on for quite some time, makes everything worth it. All I’m saying is, sometimes you’ve got to have patience and while it sucks, it might have a good end result.

IamBack · 31-35, M

First of all, this needs more context, the way you dress maybe or act or even how you interact in conversations, all of this matters

Secondly, and most importantly, being in a relationship does NOT mean being happy at all, you should want to be in one because you want to be in one, not because everyone else is in one, enjoy your own company and let your happiness come from within, the right guy will come sooner or later

JonUK41 · 36-40, M

Maybe you're just not interacting with enough people in real life.

You've said guys like you online so why not start a relationship that way?

pdockal · 56-60, M

Just be yourself and stop analyzing & worrying ... your too young to let this bother you ... maybe your not in the right social situations to meet your partner ...

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in10RjFox · M

It is because You don't Like anyone. Instead of liking someone or as many, which is your right irrespective of your looks, you are trying to transact by making liking as business. You expect people to like you first, for you to like them. Why just someONE when there are so many to like you! ..

Eyes & Looks are prejudice. Think all are blind. Don't let your eyes to evaluate the person. Try to talk to their mind/ heart. Approach them instead of waiting for them to Approach you.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Just a suggestion. Why not chose who you want, rather than waiting for no reason?

Just pass up any men that don't have anything already accessible.

They obviously are not looking for anything permanent. And you can verify at your own time. Either directly in person or by other means. Say other people.

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

you have to approach them, men were taught, well the good ones were taught to respect women meaning dont approach for connection as women dont like that any more,