I Want to Vent
Sometimes I wonder if I am the crazy one for always being upfront...wanting the best for others and truly trying to be a good friend...I just don't understand how so many people can live dual lives...tell you one thing and you find out another...
The key for me is observing patterns of behavior. If behavior bends like a helix and seems off and furthermore is repeated again and again, then the red flag begins to flash its neon lights as a warning that something just is not right. Needless to say, as an eternal optimist, I so do not want it to be as is indicated when this happens, and people can change ...people also though have to want to change...they have to want to succeed in life and in relationships on purpose. It's often difficult to accept that which only others can change of which you have no impact one way or the other.
Like Mandy Hale once said, " Trust the wait. Embrace the uncertainty. Enjoy the beauty of becoming. When nothing is certain, anything is possible." Therein appears to be the solution is to just basically go with the flow and trust that uncertain is where it is until otherwise revealed.
The key for me is observing patterns of behavior. If behavior bends like a helix and seems off and furthermore is repeated again and again, then the red flag begins to flash its neon lights as a warning that something just is not right. Needless to say, as an eternal optimist, I so do not want it to be as is indicated when this happens, and people can change ...people also though have to want to change...they have to want to succeed in life and in relationships on purpose. It's often difficult to accept that which only others can change of which you have no impact one way or the other.
Like Mandy Hale once said, " Trust the wait. Embrace the uncertainty. Enjoy the beauty of becoming. When nothing is certain, anything is possible." Therein appears to be the solution is to just basically go with the flow and trust that uncertain is where it is until otherwise revealed.
