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Am i unimportant to them?

today is my birthday. my bf wished me at 12 and he stayed on the call till 12:10 or sumn. then i told my mom who was slightly asleep to wake up for a bit so that we can cut the cake together. she's all i have and i thought my brother wont be joining me. so i got all pretty and ready and my brother came too so i was happy thinking he'll join us. but then he started to argue with mom about something which could've waited btw. i saw the table where I'm supposed to put the cake was incredibly messed up bc of my bro. during his bday, i cleaned the table so he could have a clean place. but my birthday??? and when i was calling out to my mom, she was busy arguing with him. i didnt know that discussion was more important than my birthday. i couldn't hold it in. i cut the cake myself with no one singing happy birthday.i couldn't eat the cake. i went straight to the bathroom and started crying and when my mom noticed she called out to me. i was too sad that time so i constantly told her to go away. after that she started blaming that it was my fault, i should've waited for her and shouldn't have talked with my bf sm. idk what to feel. 2 hrs into 16 and i already bawled my eyes out. it hurts. it hurts sm.
Whittleisstressed · 13-15, F
I'm not 16, but I have a friend who's about 3-4 years older than me. She constantly tells me how the phrase 'sweet sixteen' is just a sugar-coated lie to make teens feel happy about growing up. With that, I'd like to say that I'm sorry you've actually gone through this. All this wasn't your fault, and the fact that your boyfriend actually cares about you is sweet. But please always remember that you're loved and are important to them. From a bystander's view, I can just say that your brother was in the wrong for even starting that fight on your special day, as well as your mother who didn't even bother to apologise.
It's honestly crazy that some people even forget about joyou occasssions like these anyway.

Happy birthday, by the way. This was just purely unacceptable of your family, so i hope that whatever else u wish for today will come true in the near future.
dumtub · 16-17
@Whittleisstressed honestly tho i was so happy about the sweet sixteen thingie and boom that happens.
Thank you so much hun for the comfort <333
Whittleisstressed · 13-15, F
@dumtub im glad i could be of help for you ^^
I'm so sorry that happened to you, you deserve better. I can sing rn if it can help


Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
You deserve so much better
May you find better people
Hip hip hooray!!

Celebrating ur birthday with this little creatures. 🎂🎈 hope your next birthday gets sm better tho
dumtub · 16-17
@Peanutbutterbunny thanks a lot :( <3
Angelboy · 13-15, M
Happy birthday 🎂
dumtub · 16-17
@Angelboy thank you :))
come2gether · 46-50, M
Wtf. Live another 30 years and see how insignificant that will be

 
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