Venting again

Idk i made some "friends" on here and they said they had to go but never messaged me back and its been a few days with no response. I try really hard to express myself over text and keep the conversation going but its really hard and i just want to make a friend. Also another thing is no katter how much i practice im so bad at everything. Any hobby i get im so so bad at it:(. Ive been practicing drawing and art since elementry school and im still no better than what an elementry school artist could do. I know not everyones going to be good even if you practice a lot but it seems like no matter what it is im just not good at it. Any video games im really bad to the point where most of my freinds wont even play with me bc im so bad:/. Idk theres nothing i expect out of this post i just needed to type my feelings out.

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Gasgapodol

Friends come and go.. And it's hard when they go and especially suddenly with seemingly no reason or explanation why. This says more about them than you.
As for hobbies, I'm somewhat an artist myself, and I understand hore hard it is to feel like you're not getting better.. Yes it takes practice and a lot of patience and many times younger people than me are better than me. But comparison is the death of it all in this situation. Even if you're not a master in the things you do, that's okay. You're here to live and experience life, surely there will be something you enjoy and can do at least to satisfy yourself to how well you do it. Keep going and doing stuff you like, and even gf you're not the best or "good", when you enjoy what you do, it already is better in many ways. Keep going!!!

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Gasgapodol

@BeanieBaby1 I'm glad! And remember, keep your head up and, don't forget to also enjoy your time on this world. It's okay to worry, but remember to enjoy too :).
You've got this

Nevermind83 · 22-25, F

@Gasgapodol that's the kind of nice comment I wish I had thought of lol just saying, beautiful words honestly

Gasgapodol

@Nevermind83 if we just try to be nice to each other and support each other even in the slightest or share pieces of advice, we've already done a good thing and that's great. <3

NotSoWiseDude · M

Well... there isn't much i can say, do or offer... but I'll be your friend if you'd like

Don't be hard on yourself when it comes to hobbies and art, everyone's running there own race, what matters is if you're doing your best.. and if your best isn't that good, that's perfectly alright, especially when it comes to art as there is no correct nor incorrect way to do art. Tbh, my handwriting hasn't gotten better since 1st grade so don't feel to bad about your drawing skills

Tbh, your "friends" sound like aholes. My best friend is absolutely horrendous at minecraft to the point where she'd die to a llama but i still enjoy playing with her because because i genuinely love spending time with her. If your friends don't play with you because you're "not good", that's there own problem that they need to suck up and deal with. What matters when playing video games is to have fun and if your friends dont have fun playing with you because you're not good, you should probably get new friends.

Anyways, I hope things get better for you, take care, I hope you have/had a good day
Byee!

normante · 16-17

we can be friends if youd like >: D im still getting used to this site so srry if i dont respond right away tho

Nevermind83 · 22-25, F

I think your problem with being bad at hobbies might be due to having multiple hobbies, to be good and really good comes with a lot of practice, and hobbies to begin with, like drawing should be fun, so it doesn't matter if it's not that good as long as you like drawing, if you don't like than maybe you should try other things (sports and stuff) and commit to one

BeanieBaby1 · 13-15, F

@Nevermind83 i try that and it doesn't seem to work still even if i focous and try really hard on 1 thing and sports are cool but i can't participate bc health problems:(

3Rhenny3 · 13-15

talk to me if you would like, hun.

FinsterCatt · 16-17, T

you can always talk to me :3
i might not respond right away, bc my wifi sucks, but i'll respond asap <33

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