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What do I do? Advice plsss

Hello! I need advice and I'm venting!!! 😭
So I have this neighbors that just come to our house unannounced use our wifi and electricity and when we are not home they go to our house we are aware but my parents let it slide they even broke some of our things and didn't even say sorry my blood absolutely boils when I see them but we see each other everyday since they use our wifi and just comes inside our house with no warning and sits in the sofa like it's there house!!! By the way they don't pay ever or help our family my parents are just overly generous and they took advantage.
michaela2001 · 70-79
Change the wifi password.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@michaela2001 this ^^^
carpediem · 61-69, M
Go back to school and brush up on your spelling skills.
AngissTT · 18-21, F
@carpediem sorry English is not my first language it's my 3rd 😃
GLITTER · 36-40, F
My advice - Get a door lock
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
This^^^@GLITTER
AngissTT · 18-21, F
Thank you so much for your advices but I already did change the wifi password but they got the password for some reason my parents will get mad at me if I'll lock the door so I'll try to tell them what I really feel and hope they understand thank you !!!!🙏
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Trespassing, damage, theft of electricity.....
AngissTT · 18-21, F
@ArishMell in our culture its pretty normal but I value my belongings and privacy that's why I posted this to get advice
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@AngissTT Some "culture" that is, if such acts are "normal". If you can't obtain any redress by talking to your neighbours first, or in law, you will have to make them feel as awkward and unwanted as possible for them by changing passwords, even removing the equipment from the room, not giving them any help or hospitality, etc.

You could also try loudly playing music you like but they don't!
It seems like this is your parents call, if they don't mind I don't think there's much you can do. Disagreeing is fine, but if it's their house and bills, it's not really for you to fix.
AngissTT · 18-21, F
@stound but my parents borrow money from me and when they borrow they don't give it back and they take alot
@AngissTT is it borrowing or are they making you pay rent? In either case, it sounds like you should move out to be on your own.
Sounds like this is a " problem" for your parents not for you. They pay the bills. Let it be. You could discuss it with them. I doubt they will change their ways. When you have your own home, you can make all the rules.
Tell these neighbors you no longer have internet connection and let your parents know your real feelings, that it's causing you anxiety .
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
It's your parents place I'm assuming. So your only option is to move.
AngissTT · 18-21, F
@DeWayfarer I can't just move because my family grew up here 🥲
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@AngissTT the place I grew up in is no longer there.

Think about that and what could happen. 🤷🏻‍♂️
th3r0n · 41-45, M
May God bless your kind family, and give a gentle remedy for the situation, in the name of Jesus
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Is it just kids ? or adults ? boys or girls ?
AngissTT · 18-21, F
@Midlifemale the whole family
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@AngissTT OMG ! that has to STOP....someone from your family needs to pay hat family a visit and tell them to STOP from freely coming over to your house
Patriot96 · 56-60, C
Lock your doors
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AngissTT · 18-21, F
@Miram I really like your advice I'll try doing it

 
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