middle child problem

hi, i have 2 older brother and 1 younger brother ( 3 years younger than me ). so basically, im in the middle and a girl ( their only daughter in a family ) . everyone supposed that im always getting spoiled by my parents since im the only girl in my sibling but turns out i am THE PUNCHING BAG lmao. my mom abused me since i was little. i still remember when i am 6 or 7 years old, my younger brother who is 4 years old at that time messed up my mom foundation by put it on the wall . even when my mom know that my younger brother is the one who ruin her foundation, she still hit me. BRUTALLY. as if shes hitting a girl in teenage age when im just 6years old at that time. she always put the blame on me. even when its crystal clear my brothers is the one messing around, she always find a way to put the blame on me. she doesnt care when her sons disrespect her or even calling her shit infront of her face. shes can deal with it. but when im doing just slight reaction to show how frustrated i am, she will throw tantrum and act like i do every kind of things that disrespect her. sometimes i questioning god, why would you give daughter to a family who doesnt need one? are you just sending me here to let me suffered? if that was your point then you win.

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MarthannBann888 · 70-79, F

Yeah, I have an older brother. He broke my right arm in four places, wiped out 20% of my hearing in one ear, and beat me till I couldn’t have children, and that is what I know about.

If there is anyone in the family that is your friend, then show them your letter and ask for help. If not a family member, then go to your teacher and ask for a meeting with her and the principle. Show them the letter and ask for help.

If not any of them, go to your nearest police station and show them the letter. Tell them you are afraid and need help.

If there is no one but your mother, show her the letter and tell her this. “I love you, mom. But I need you to know that I am changing inside because of all this mistreatment. I don’t feel like you think I am a good person, and I do feel like you don’t want me around. I would hate to think that I would have to separate myself from the family when I come of age, but I am miserable with all of this blame and disapproval.

Then start really doing your lessons. You are going to need to support yourself. Right now you are not able to write a letter correctly. There is nothing wrong with you that you can’t change that. What you are doing is thinking about all this stuff and not your lessons. Which is what other children in your situation do as well. But you don’t have to, now that you know. Take your lessons one day at a time and don’t worry about tomorrow, it will take care of itself.

Most importantly, ALWAYS read your lessons before the teacher talks about them in class. If she doesn’t say which lesson you will have then go to the next one in the book. You will make great grades if you do this. Just try it.

saintsong · 41-45, F

As a mother to two older boys, a daughter in the middle, and a younger son like you....I am so so sorry you remember those bad memories of your mother that were not your fault! If I was your mother I would want to know what is coming in between you and her, is there any way you both could find it in your selves to forgive each other and grasp the idea of loving one another again? We are all so faultered we all sin, nobody is perfect, but we can try to make things better together! God bless you dear young lady!

JonLosAngeles66 · M

I'm old now but I was the youngest of three with two boys and a girl. My sister in The middle. We're all very close but I know it couldn't have been easy being the only girl in the middle.

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