Why cant my family stop fighting

When human emotions find a common target together, that belong together, they become truly evil. Eg, mother has emotional issues, then she sees the damage she does to her child, begins to hate her more, for she hoped to give something else and the anger becomes paraded through eternity, it's so sad. The one who received her anger begins to become angry with her mother.

Remain absent from it. The best action that you can take. They will suffer more as a result of your intrusiveness.

Your dad is going to have to get over himself and leave. and not turn around or continue in a poisonous relationship. Nobody else can accomplish it but your father.

I don't think it's super uncommon. A lot of people seem to need drama, arguments and negativity in their lives. The real issue is how other people are brought in to it. Seems a like a pretty shitty way to go through life. But that's the lane some go down.

Thank u all so much
the issue is that they both love each other honestly when one of them gets sick the other acts like a heedless chicken with worry i just don't understand why they fight and rip each other apart like that

What they need is a common enemy...it's your time to shine...

Is this a recent development or has it been ongoing for a while ?

Probably lack of structure