Did i do something or are they just bad friends?

So, my friends have been ignoring me at school for 2 days now, usually Ashley(not real name) sits next to me but today, she sat next to Anna(also not real name) and threw paper balls at my desk, then i did the same and i heard Anna whisper to Ashley 'pick me' but im not a pick me at all, i rarely talk to guys, so i dont understand, but thats not all, it was the last class of the day, and i heard them whisper: 'its funny she thinks were friends' i dont know if they meant me, but if so, they shouldve just said it, i wont waste more time on them then, i mean i wasted 3 years being friends with Anna and a year and one summer with Ashley, but still, why are they ignoring me??

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General · 16-17

I don’t know your circumstances when it comes to your situation, but as a person who is very honest I suggest you talk to them about it. It is not very fun to play a guessing game with friends so being up front should be the best option try not to be harsh but be closed off a bit because sometimes emotions can cloud judgement, and this might influence you to be friends and forgive them for what they have done. One question though were you and “Ashley” close? And did you guys get close quickly? Sorry for asking questions and I’m also sorry if I’ve come as rude for anything I’ve said in this comment. You can always decline my offer to talk to me. But I can listen to you 💜💜

Anonymus · 16-17, F

@General yeah, me and "Ashely" became close very quickly, and we were like a "duo" (i always tied to include ''Anna'') but now im left out, i dont know what happened, i didnt say anything or neither i have done anything, but This isnt rhe first time Anna has done this, but i always forgive her, but im actually curious if everything will go back to normal.

(I know i didnt do anything, because i only remember coming to school late at thursday, and they were already glaring at me, it was strange, since at Wednesday everything was normal)

General · 16-17

@Anonymus ok so correct me if I’m wrong but you got close to someone else before “Ashley” and then “Anna” reacted the same way as when you and “Ashley” got close? So do see what’s happening the problem here lies between you and “Anna”. She happens to have most of the “power” when it comes to your friendships since she can easily take them away from you, but did you ever think for once what “Anna” might be feeling. Look I know I don’t know what exactly is going and I don’t know you or “Anna” personally, but maybe this “ Anna” girlpop is just jealous of the friendships you are having maybe she is feeling I don’t know left out and then out of rage or simple jealousy she proceeds to take the only thing that’s taking you away from her which is *drum roll* your new found friend. I must say I would do the same but I would not go so far for a friend. I’m simply a person that gets jealous quick so I do the exact same thing that “Anna” theoretically does to you , remember I don’t know if this is right, but I only do it with people I like. I don’t know if “ Anna” has fallen for you or whatever but I don’t want that thought to be in your head so let’s forget that part. But the solution should be : get “Anna” alone and confront her don’t be scared she is your friend after all. Maybe invite her over or something just talk to her figure it out with her ok? I really sorry for this paragraph and again I don’t know anything about the situation so if this really isn’t the case I’m so sorry. Oh and if I was being blunt I’m sorry for that too. Fill me in when you come online💜💜💜

AwfulLife · 18-21, F

Girl, just leave them alone, cut ties with them and don't let them use you. How about focusing more on your self, career or school, try making new friends. If she could just throw your friendship away like that, she was never your friend. But well, if you hold a grudge and you're petty, try and wait for the right timing well if you're plotting for revenge and so good luck. 😘

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