I have a friend crush on this girl in 4 of my classes, and I don't know what to do

So basically a friend crush is when you REALLY want to be friends with someone, I'll call my friend crush E, I've had a friend crush on E since late September or early October. I made two paintings for her and I used a fake name for the paintings, when she got the second one, she found out it was me. I put a note on her desk explaining, but she just talks with her friends, we don't really talk and I'm too shy to talk to her.

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General · 16-17

If you don’t mind me asking but are you sure you consider this person a friend? In my eyes I’m not sure I’d see you as a friend but as someone that is trying to get my attention because they like me. I apologise if I’m incorrect or if you feel I’ve insulted you.

Maiillusion13 · 13-15, F

@General I'm sure I just want to be her friend

General · 16-17

@Maiillusion13 I see well the actions you have done may have perceived as you like them, but I’ll give you a tip try talking to the person when they are alone it can be overwhelming to talk to the person when they are surrounded by people. This tip might depend on if the person is actually alone at some point. If not try mustering up the courage to approach them when people are around. Another tip is to stop giving things to this person remember they don’t know who you are so it’ll be weird to them. Again I’m sorry if my blunt words have offended you, I’m just trying to help you in that what you’ve done might have been seen a different way in their eyes. Do forgive my grammar 💜

Maiillusion13 · 13-15, F

@General It's okay, I don't really have courage to talk to her though sadly

General · 16-17

@Maiillusion13 I see, but at some point you’ll eventually get tired of waiting to talk to this person you’ll become restless so my suggestion will be: Try to speak to her alone but this might not work. This is a really tough situation. I really can’t think of a way to help in this case. Since you already gave this image to this girl that you are kinda stalking if I were to call it that, I feel this is what she may have gotten from the situation, I’m sorry again for being blunt. Do your best tho. Good luck 💜💜

Maiillusion13 · 13-15, F

@General It's okay, and thank you

General · 16-17

@Maiillusion13 how’s the friend crush as you call it going ?

Maiillusion13 · 13-15, F

@General It's still the same I haven't talked to her yet