A relationship based on money is not a relationship and likely a scam

Trust that in a few years you’ll look back and realize how stupid this plight is.

His lack of resourcefulness isn’t your problem nor should it ever be. If he really needs money, he can grow a pair of balls and go work for it. You don’t have the financial means to make a pour investment in a loser.

That’s as little as I can possibly sugar coat it for you.

Don’t date a loser. Don’t take a two week old relationship seriously.

You probably shouldn't be giving him money.

Honest answer is ditch the boyfriend, apologise to your mum for sending the money. Reconciliation with her means much more and something a parent will appreciate. Expect that you may need to pay her the money back if it is her money you sent. You will need to be open on what happened as you breached her trust. You need to start showing her she can trust you again. It wont be easy but it is worth it in the long run. We all make mistakes but now it is important we learn from them.

I'd suggest it is also a time to reflect and mature. If you don't have a bank account of your own it is time to set one up. If you are old enough to work getting a job will also help you see and value money.

Although it is sad the situation the person you met is in he needs to grow up and seek the right help. His brother or wider family can sort the air fare and you have no obligation to help him.

You will meet someone better in the future and you have plenty of time.

You say you want to be a supportive girlfriend, but that doesn't mean you should be carrying him. You probably will have other boyfriends, but you only have one mother. 🤗

Girl, you should walk away and you know it!!!!!

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