I go through this too...

I find those things meditative... Gaming, music, etc...

It's frustrating to break out of those, once you're in your groove. It's selfish for someone to not appreciate or realise that.

I don't think you need to break up.

I think both of you need to do some more emotional work.

You're not making yourself fully available to her, and it sounds like she just wants a deeper connection with you.

But admittedly, most of us are too addicted to our bullshit that goes nowhere to really pay the proper amount of appreciation to the things in life that should be appreciated.

It sounds like she's being an emotional terrorist, and passive aggressively trying to win your attention. She might not realise how foolish this is, esp. given how most people don't mature fully until their mid-to-late 20's.

Don't sweat it. But don't ignore it either. This is a good opportunity for growth. You need to work through this in your own way.

Hey, you know, a relationship works with good communication. she does not seem to communicate well

Need a better girl my man