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i accept it when we are on a call and she doesn't hear me sometimes, that makes total sense, but when I didn't hear her and asked her to repeat stuff or anything on the same page, she ends the call and proceeds to get upset.

for instance, i asked her if i could game that night and with a happy and open heart, she let me

and i told her to wave if she needs me since I couldn't hear her (i was wearing headphones)

and so one time she waved and i answered

she proceeds to talk but the rounds starts and i had to pay attention to the game

so she ends the call and tells me that she hates me

i asked her why and she wouldn't reply

she let me go on a game that i told her what it was and she agreed to acknowledge that I wouldn't be hearing her and there is time to that game

it was an online multiplayer game where there were no pause buttons

she acknowledged that

so that's my issue

most times when i am just jamming and she's just on her phone

when I'm done jamming, i asked her how it was and she said she wasn't listening, she was watching tiktoks

i respected that and told myself "it's alright, she is focusing on something"

and that other day i was cooking and when I'm done, i showed her my food and she doesn't react and when i screamed to call her, she said that she lowered her volume

should i be worried?

should i be scared?

should i consider breaking up?

should i end this relationship?

thank you to whoever gives me advice about this

because this is my first time in a relationship and we are 7 months in
SnailTeeth · 36-40
I go through this too...

I find those things meditative... Gaming, music, etc...

It's frustrating to break out of those, once you're in your groove. It's selfish for someone to not appreciate or realise that.

I don't think you need to break up.

I think both of you need to do some more emotional work.

You're not making yourself fully available to her, and it sounds like she just wants a deeper connection with you.

But admittedly, most of us are too addicted to our bullshit that goes nowhere to really pay the proper amount of appreciation to the things in life that should be appreciated.

It sounds like she's being an emotional terrorist, and passive aggressively trying to win your attention. She might not realise how foolish this is, esp. given how most people don't mature fully until their mid-to-late 20's.

Don't sweat it. But don't ignore it either. This is a good opportunity for growth. You need to work through this in your own way.
WOW355 · 16-17, F
Just talk about it together calmly and identify each other’s feelings and work through them. Every relationship has its own battles and ending your relationship seems to be the easy way out. Give your relationship a chance and work through your problems together
wackidywack · 26-30
Hey, you know, a relationship works with good communication. she does not seem to communicate well
Juvia · 18-21, F
Need a better girl my man

 
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