You should talk to him about it but boys usually start getting defensive so you got to say it like “your mans name, I appreciate you being in my life I love you however I feel like in our relationship you’re not giving me the ‘problem eg care’ that I want from you” and then you should go on saying how you would go about finding a solution to this together. With men you got to explain it in a way that they know that you still want them in your life and appreciate them but also In a way that you’re calling them out for something that you deserve and should receive in the relationship without them getting upset and defensive but to actually get them to understand what you’re saying instead of listing things that they arnt doing for you yk. Then you should ask if from your side you’re doing good as a girlfriend and if there is anything they want you to improve on and again find a solution together. HOPE THIS HELPS BYEEEEEEE