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Feel as if my boyfriend doesn’t care.

Hi, i’m a 14 year old female transitioning into high school soon. My Boyfriend and I have a mutually respectful relationship. But, lately it seems as if he doesn’t care.

Normally we text on a daily basis whether it’s about what we’re doing that day or just to check up on each other. But it seems as if he just doesn’t get me. He’s attractive of course, I wouldn’t be dating him if he wasn’t . But it’s starting to seem that he’s like any other guy (immature, slob-like, & emotionally distant). I don’t know much about relationship considering the fact i’m still young still, I have my standards. I want someone gets me on an emotional level and cares for how i’m feeling, and i don’t think he’s that guy. I love my boyfriend very much (that may be a strong word considering i’m only 14 but i truly do) but in this direction I don’t think our relationship will last very long if he doesn’t at least grow a little in the maturity aspect of his life.

What should I do? Am i asking to much?
WOW355 · 16-17, F
You should talk to him about it but boys usually start getting defensive so you got to say it like “your mans name, I appreciate you being in my life I love you however I feel like in our relationship you’re not giving me the ‘problem eg care’ that I want from you” and then you should go on saying how you would go about finding a solution to this together. With men you got to explain it in a way that they know that you still want them in your life and appreciate them but also In a way that you’re calling them out for something that you deserve and should receive in the relationship without them getting upset and defensive but to actually get them to understand what you’re saying instead of listing things that they arnt doing for you yk. Then you should ask if from your side you’re doing good as a girlfriend and if there is anything they want you to improve on and again find a solution together. HOPE THIS HELPS BYEEEEEEE
Milooo · 13-15
im so sorry thats happing</3 i know it can be hard, but you can always talk to me ml<3
MISTEROK · M

 
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