Dark is not good; that's your conclusion, but it's a fine one along the way. I once listened to my ex, about your age, we were together then, talking with an older friend. Our older friend talked of losing and loss.. and my ex, her dear soul, mentioned only this to her, I've learned in my time, to no longer question, why. When I think upon it.. The whys of life will never be clear, and we may not know it, but we chase them like horses hoping those answers set us free. They don't.

[quote] Just had a chick call me pessimistic and dark. She isn't wrong. I am just being defensive than being offensive. Dark is good, I guess.[/quote]

Maybe you are? Nothing wrong with itself... and if looked upon a different way, she sees you?