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feels so unfair

We had our finals a few weeks back and yesterday we got our results. I found out that even people who did REALLY BAD were promoted??? why did i stay up all night and worked my ass off??? they passed without even studying?? ik i sound v petty rn but it feels so unfair. i didnt sleep for two goddamn weeks like c'mon?? nah i feel so exploited. also really bad results as in they failed 4-5 subs but still got promoted? hahahahha
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There's an old joke... What do you call the lowest scoring person to get their doctorate? Doctor.

Yes, ultimately you passed, whether by a lot or by a little. And for some people, like those who tell that joke, that's all that matters. Those people are right... But also wrong. Test scores are nice, but they aren't everything. You can do poorly on paper and do excellent in practice. The opposite can be true, as well.

However, you did something that wasn't measured on the test. Something much more important than the test itself. You applied yourself. And that's not something that can be taught. You learned more than they did. You worked harder than they did. Being promoted wasn't a reward for those things and being denied promotion isn't a punishment. Those are simply consequences.

The reward or punishment comes much later. It comes when you're faced with a situation where you need to apply your knowledge. You will be rewarded with success. They will be punished by failure.
existing · 18-21
ik how bad it feels but its ok dont be sad. things not always turn out the way we want them to. when it happens we feel sad angry mostly unfair. but we need to accept it the way it is.j ust calm down take a deep breath and what happend just happend. dont stress over it . have a good day
ririi · 16-17
@existing Thank you so much and yes i've calmed down. My need for extreme academic validation got the best of me.
Its why mediocrity is an across the board trait in industry....politics....you name it. No matter how stupid you are...how badly you fail.....who cares? Schools are budgetted for next year based how many they push out the door this year. Dont matter if they are "educated" or not. Just adjust the curve on grades to make state minimums and wave goodbye to the dummies. Now they're the worlds problem. I interview people who cant read a first grade book.

 
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