He wont even tell me what happened

I miss him every single day. I dream about him every single night. I can't even fall asleep because I can't get him off my mind. He was the best friend I've ever had in my whole life. I was in love with him to. It's almost been a year. How am I supposed to heal? I though I would spend my life with him. I've never loved anyone more. I miss him so much. So so so much. I tried talking to him. I don't even know why we aren't friends anymore. He told me it was personal. Please Harevs. Please. I love you Harvey. I love you forever. No matter what. Love, Gracie

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Mamapolo2016 · F

@akshamaeh7331 You should be careful about generalizations. "Nobody cares about your feelings" may speak for you, but it doesn't speak for everybody.

It doesn't speak for me.

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Mamapolo2016 [quote]You should be careful about generalizations. "Nobody cares about your feelings" may speak for you, but it doesn't speak for everybody.

It doesn't speak for me.[/quote]

When people tell you their problems then they become your problems in that they clutter up your mind with distracting thoughts. That tends to take the focus off of your own countless problems. Consequently , you can become upset with the other person and express disparaging remarks or become depressed and unhappy with yourself because you are unable to solve the person's problems.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Diotrephes That may be.

akshamaeh7331

@Mamapolo2016 no i meant just her feelings dont matter.. as long as shes safe and shes not in any kind of danger shell be fine. People just need to suck it up lol.. Sheesh. no big deal . she should have known what kinds of guys shes dating. Some girls get used like that because theyre not careful. I woudlnt do that. But you cant feel bad for a girl who goes through this. You just cant. Shes the one who gave herself up so easily.

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@akshamaeh7331[quote] no i meant just her feelings dont matter.. as long as shes safe and shes not in any kind of danger shell be fine. People just need to suck it up lol.. Sheesh. no big deal . she should have known what kinds of guys shes dating. Some girls get used like that because theyre not careful. I woudlnt do that. But you cant feel bad for a girl who goes through this. You just cant. Shes the one who gave herself up so easily.[/quote]

It's basic human nature for people to gravitate toward others like the ones they grew-up with. For example, if a child had abusive parents the child will seek out a partner who is abusive. That is because that is the type of person the child (now adult) is comfortable with although the person might hate the abuser. The person won't really be happy with someone who is nice until the person changes him/herself to become comfortable with a nicer person.

https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-i-stopped-being-everything-i-hated-about-my-parents/

https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-spot-abusive-people-and-stop-getting-into-toxic-relationships/