My friends are ignoring me

My friends are always ignoring me when I ask them for help they simply would just ignore me while I always help them with everything I mean EVERYTHING like food, school works, heartbreaks, lost items, and many more they wouldn't even talk to me is it because of me being too energetic or is it just them? if it's them then should I drop them?

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assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

just remember to do unto others as they do to you (which is far more pragmatic than the actual quote lol). so if they say hi, say hi. if they include you, include them. if they ignore you when you need them, ignore them when they need you. "oh, i'm sorry. well actually, this family thing came up, which is quite important for me". it's a way to make them realize your priorities have changed. You can still say hi and just do as much as they do for you while defining new boundaries subtly like that. They'll catch on soon and will also feel pretty stupid about it. That's how you can slowly "drop" them.