Im being left out

Is it normal to be left out in school? Whenever theres an event going on my school, I often get left out and just happen to be always standing at the corner looking lost because i dont have anyone to talk or to be with. One day my friend suddenly just stop noticing me and I get the awkwardness whenever I see her. We relate to each other but suddenly treated each other a stranger. I want to cry and go home always. I even thinked of how I dont want to go to school

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Casheyane · 31-35, F

I experienced that too.
You know what I learned years later?
When friends start alienating you, let them. When friends start choosing others over you, let them.

It may make you sad at first. But I hope you realize that that is an opportunity for you to discover yourself and find your people. Whatever you are going through is a part of your life. Academic life and even a social life full of classmates may seem like it is your universe but as you grow, you'll realize it is not. And grades and friends don't define your value.

You'll meet more and more people. They would come and go. But there are others who would stay. Don't be afraid of life. But learn to enjoy the ride.

The constant in your life is you. Cherish him/her. Be your own friend and have your own back. Once people start seeing your confidence and self-care, those would attract them. But with or without them, I hope you learn to be okay, and eventually, to be happy.

Lalimiyo · 22-25

@Casheyane thank you, actually what you said really did had an impact to my life cause after realizing that things will always not go in my ways, I had a HUGE DEREALIZATION. And started to just enjoy things on my phone and just dont care on things. Like let them leave, im not gonna beg you to stop ignoring me lolol/srs

TexasOutlawTrey · M

Story of my life

Penny · 46-50, F

well, dont just stand in the corner then, get yourself involved. if the other kids seem standoffish then ask the teacher if theres anyone you can do, maybe they will help get you involved.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

You have to make people see you in social circles to keep from being excluded. Something like this happened to me in college. Sorry you’re going through this.

Wendigo · 31-35, M

You’ll be fine, nerd

TexasOutlawTrey · M

@Wendigo you’re a nerd

Wendigo · 31-35, M

@TexasOutlawTrey ya… I am

MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F

@Wendigo you’re a yummy 🤤 nerd

Nihiless

It is for some.

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