So sorry to hear about your longtime friend. It's not all that uncommon as we get older and take on new identities that we will lose some old friends. It's just one of those things. She may come back into your life at another time. So be ready to accept her if it happens.

Love, Kim ❣️

I think she just wanted a reason to stop being your friend, it's probably not just the colour thing I hope you'll work it out or find a better friend.