Family nuisance
Its almost my birthday, and i really need a new phone but i cant get one if my family is pissed off at me.
My mom and grandparents always expect me to act a certain way and don't take the time to teach me how to act. Every day i try to change the littlest flaw that they point out and don't like, that its come to a point where its an even bigger flaw. Im not thinking of getting married (/in any rush) anytime soon in my adult life but my mom and grandma always bring up how ill disappoint my husbands family and embarrass them if i continue not to learn to cook and clean. I hate everything. I try to do good in school but that's also not enough for my mom to notice me i also baked cookies and wash dishes every night without complaining but she still doesn't say anything. Except tell me to quit my only hobby that i have to escape which is drawing. Shes so unsupportive and i don't have anyone in my family to rely on. Its really frustrating and i don't know what to do, i was hoping someone here could give me advice on how to rebuild my weak relationship with my family so that school isn't what i resort to when i say 'safe place'. :(
My mom and grandparents always expect me to act a certain way and don't take the time to teach me how to act. Every day i try to change the littlest flaw that they point out and don't like, that its come to a point where its an even bigger flaw. Im not thinking of getting married (/in any rush) anytime soon in my adult life but my mom and grandma always bring up how ill disappoint my husbands family and embarrass them if i continue not to learn to cook and clean. I hate everything. I try to do good in school but that's also not enough for my mom to notice me i also baked cookies and wash dishes every night without complaining but she still doesn't say anything. Except tell me to quit my only hobby that i have to escape which is drawing. Shes so unsupportive and i don't have anyone in my family to rely on. Its really frustrating and i don't know what to do, i was hoping someone here could give me advice on how to rebuild my weak relationship with my family so that school isn't what i resort to when i say 'safe place'. :(