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Its almost my birthday, and i really need a new phone but i cant get one if my family is pissed off at me.

My mom and grandparents always expect me to act a certain way and don't take the time to teach me how to act. Every day i try to change the littlest flaw that they point out and don't like, that its come to a point where its an even bigger flaw. Im not thinking of getting married (/in any rush) anytime soon in my adult life but my mom and grandma always bring up how ill disappoint my husbands family and embarrass them if i continue not to learn to cook and clean. I hate everything. I try to do good in school but that's also not enough for my mom to notice me i also baked cookies and wash dishes every night without complaining but she still doesn't say anything. Except tell me to quit my only hobby that i have to escape which is drawing. Shes so unsupportive and i don't have anyone in my family to rely on. Its really frustrating and i don't know what to do, i was hoping someone here could give me advice on how to rebuild my weak relationship with my family so that school isn't what i resort to when i say 'safe place'. :(
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11 Reasons Why Children Should Not Use Mobile Phones

1. Eye Damage
Staring at a computer or mobile screen for long periods of time can cause eye problems. This computer vision syndrome can damage your eyes. Prevent eye problems by limiting the amount of time your kids can spend on screen.

2. Obesity
Studies show that children who have gadgets in their room are more likely to suffer from obesity. Everyone knows that obesity can lead to other serious medical conditions such as heart attack, and diabetes. Exposing your children to gadgets at an early age can lead to a severe health condition.

3. Brain Development
Brain size grows thrice as much from age 0 to 21 years. In the next few years, the brain will keep developing. Brain development is dependent upon so many factors and stimulus. Scientists have found out that overexposure to gadgets can lead to excessive functions, lack of attention, cognitive delays, enhanced impulsivity, learning impairment and reduction in ability for self-regulation.

4. Lack of Sleep
A recent study revealed that 60% of parents don’t make strict observance to their kids using gadgets. Seventy-five percent of these children are allowed to use gadgets in their room. These children may suffer from less sleep which can affect their behavior.

5. Slow Development
Technology makes every day work easier and helps completes our tasks faster. However, it reduces the need for movement for both adults and children. This delays development among kids. Studies show that kids suffer a negative impact on literacy, delayed development and negative impact on academic success. Movement allows kids to develop learning abilities, as well as attention-based abilities.

6. Aggressive Behavior
Violent media can do harm to your kids when exposed to it. It can lead to the development of aggressive behavior. Visuals which exhibit violence, including sexual and physical, shown in such games and TV shows display murder, mutilation, torture, rape, and sex –should be off limits to children.

The US government has categorized “Media violence” as Public Health Risk because it promotes aggression in children.

7. Mental Illness
Increase cases of child anxiety, depression, attachment disorder, autism, attention deficit, problematic child behavior, psychosis and bipolar disorder are believed to be caused by too much exposure to gadgets. In Canada, one out of six children is diagnosed with a form of mental illness.

8. Digital Dementia
Media content to kids’ brain may contribute to attention deficit and lack of concentration. The memory may also be affected because the brain cuts the neuron tracks towards the frontal cortex. Your child cannot learn when he cannot pay attention to tasks at hand.

9. Addiction
In the absence of parental attachment which should be provided by parents, kids become more attached to their devices. Addiction to these gadgets may also be possible. Studies show that one out of eleven children between 8 and 18 are suffering from addiction to technology.

10. Negative Impact
Raised on technology, kids are looking forward to a technological and non-sustainable world. Your child won’t learn the practical life lessons and skills required for survival. Overusing technology can have a negative impact on your child’s future.

11. Radiation
This is one of the most common health hazards caused by too much technology. Mobile phones are category 2B risks (World Health Organization) due to the radiation emitted by them, making them possible carcinogen.In 2013, Dr. Anthony Miller of the University of Toronto School of Public Health suggested to reclassifying exposure to radio frequency as 2A. This means it’s ‘probably carcinogen’, which is more dangerous to your health.

 
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