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I feel like my friend is starting to dislike me. I dont know why.

Me and my friend of 4 or 5 years used to be very close, hung out a lot not just in school, we even wanted to start a band a few years back. Then, recently (for a few months) he started acting different. He was often texting me or calling me first. HIM asking ME to hang out. And I dont remember rejecting him once. I also was inviting him outside, and he always went. Then later it started to die down. I was now the one who asked him, he always said "idk". He rarely went now, but still sometimes. But its developed now into him not just not texting but not even responding to mine. And I mean sure hes busy i get it. But no, I just found out few days ago he doesnt want to hang out with ME specifically. Let me explain. on friday I asked him to go to the mall to get some food. He said he wasnt busy so maybe if he feels like. The next day, nothing. No text, call no response about if he wants to or not. I said to myself "I guess he has to like clean his room or something" but he couldve texted me that hes not going. But then I recieved a snap that hes with another friend. (He asked my friend after friday) so he basically ghosted me for someone else. When I asked him about this, he said in angry tone that he also had other friends. I dont get why he didnt say this to his other friend when he asked him to hang out. So tell me am I reaching or does he not like me anymore?
Xxmcrfann2 · 16-17, F
Dudee honestly I've been in the same situation but, it will pass, I know you feel sad and left out, but aither this kid is mad at you about something and he just doesn't want to tell you, or the friendship got steal, aither way don't attach yourself to them just let it flow you will find better friends, and if he comes back great and if not then even better you'll see if he really is your friend. Ik its really sad to let a friend go but if he's making you upset then just cut him off, or don't talk to him much. Don't stress so much about that, he'll see that you're moving on with your life and he might try to get back in it. Idk how to comfort people much lol but I've been trough this and it will pass, just do whatever makes you happy, it's better to not have any friends and be happy with your life then to have a group of friends that make u miserable. Hope this helped 😅❤️
saoirs3 · 16-17, F
he just grew up

 
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