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I have no idea ( just a vent???)

So i met this guy from my tuition class this year we didn’t really talk much until one day we started to talk to each other . We got to get closer , he was one of the weirdest guys i have ever met but we had fun together . As time progressed , i think i developed a crush on him but I didn’t realise it . But one day he started talking to another girl in the class and i felt mildly jealous . When he started to talk to the other girl i felt like i was being left out , he didn’t really talk to me anymore and whenever tried to talk to him , he wouldn’t really answer . I wondered if he ever really wanted to talk to me , like did he think i was too annoying that he didn’t want to talk to me anymore . I felt so frustrated at him because I didn’t know why he didnt want to talk to me anymore and we started to lose touch , our conversations were very short .After my tuition class had ended we didn’t talk at all after that . Sometimes i wonder if he ever thinks about me because most of the time I’m thinking about him . I haven’t told anyone about my feelings towards him because i dont really feel comfortable telling because most him them know him but i want to get it out of my chest. Sometimes i feel like i hate him because i feel heartbroken . Why did he suddenly stop talking to me when we were close ( btwI was never really close to other guys before).

He is still in my school so i could still see him but i didnt want to try to talk t him anymore . I’m not sure what to do anymore , i try not to see him in school so that i could move on . But the thing is its so hard , its been more than a month and i still can get over it .
Cappuccin0 · F
you know what
I actually understand that. Especially if its the first time, thats when it hits the hardest. The thing you gotta understand is that guys tend to do that alot, I'm not saying this to make you feel bad, but its something that happens loads. They meet a girl, talk to us and when we become close they suddenly start to distance. Its something I'll never completely understand, but it could be for different reasons - either they caught feelings for you and try to avoid it because its something theyre not used to, they could have lost interest, he could even be doing it without realising.

My advice is to not dwell on it too much. I know, i know its way easier said than done but from personal experience, the more you hold onto it the more hurt its gonna hurt you. Go girl, get a glow up, live life to the fullest to the extent that he'll actually want you back. But remember, never expect anything off anyone, that way youll never get hurt
Somerandomhuman · 16-17, F
@Cappuccin0 thanks for the advice ! I appreciate it :)

 
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