Relationship feels stuck

Well I've just got in this site because i feel the terrible urge to vent, i don't even know how it works.
The thing is..my partner is in a so called community right now (it's a place where people get when they have drugs addiction or a terrible abusive relationship with their parents and can't stay in the same place as them)
We couldn't contact or see eachother for about 3 months, and after all this time we can finally go back to texting eachother, the thing is that.. lately they have been cold to me..what I'm trying to say is that they have been distant and don't share a lot with me about their day.. and they confessed to me that they feel like our relationship feels stuck to them, like they feel bored while talking to me and tomorrow I'll have a talk with them about it..and i have to try to convince them that that's just not it.
But honestly I'm so lost right now..any advice..?

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

If someone says they’re bored and not that into the relationship anymore (which includes inconsistent actions), believe them.. don’t try to convince them to feel how you wish they did. The on,y thing that comes of that is precious, wasted time, even worse heart ache than if you guys had ended things before it got really bad, and missed opportunities to meet someone who you don’t have to persuade to value/want you mutually.

being · 36-40, F

If someone tries to change their lives, especially when it comes to something as hard as drugs, maybe every connection to their previous life triggers in them the will to do drugs. Consider this...is tough for you. But perhaps he won't be able to remain in his new habits if he connects to his past, and this includes you... Maybe you will have to let him go. Anyways you deserve something better dear, than someone who has their priorities twisted....🤗

eyeno · M

IMO...move on, be glad that he's better and trying to change.
Being co-dependant on people isn't always a good thing.

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