Was This Needed??
My friend sent me a server on Discord about a day ago and I joined it, and didn't talk on it until today, well, here's how it went.
Now a server, when you have the different "rooms" or whatever there's normally a main chat place, right? Well that's what I was using to talk to everyone, they also had another lounge or whatever where you could show your fits and what not, well this one girl sent a photo of hers and no one commented on it and just skipped through it. So I thought it'd be nice to comment on it and maybe make her day.
I was wrong.
It did make her day but she did tell me how she was uncomfy with people she didn't know to well that complimented her, but she thanked me either way. I corrected myself and apologized, and she said it was okay, and how she'd be fine with getting to know me more. I was like "oh cool, sounds fun." and then this one girl had called me a weirdo.
Now everyone was a weirdo in the chat so I thanked her, I know she meant it in a rude way but I wasn't going to let that ruin my day and normally when someone hates on me or makes a snotty remark I don't react. It was left at that with me and them for a moment.
I jumped back into the main talking area and started talking again and then (K) started being rude to me even more, I wasn't bothering them and was meaning no harm. But she just started attacking me, my week already hasn't been going well and this other person tried telling me to just ignore them, and I did, until K's friend joined in.
K and B started being awfully rude to me and saying I was a nuisance, and not welcomed into the server and how I was being a weirdo and wasn't minding my own business, apparently talking in the MAIN txting server was me not minding my own business??? Like, if you want to talk to this person without any interruptions then PM them, and with them saying I wasn't minding my own business, the only ones that weren't were them. No one else in the server was trying to stand up for me, so I, of course, had to deal with it on my own. I still wasn't being rude and tried to talk it out with them, assuming I first got called anything for complimenting the girl (that was why I got called a weirdo). And with these people being absolute bums to me it threw me into a panic attack.
It was just so out of the blue for some people I barely knew to attack me like that- And with me already having a horrible week so far, pushed me over the edge.
Honestly, was it needed for them to attack me??
Now a server, when you have the different "rooms" or whatever there's normally a main chat place, right? Well that's what I was using to talk to everyone, they also had another lounge or whatever where you could show your fits and what not, well this one girl sent a photo of hers and no one commented on it and just skipped through it. So I thought it'd be nice to comment on it and maybe make her day.
I was wrong.
It did make her day but she did tell me how she was uncomfy with people she didn't know to well that complimented her, but she thanked me either way. I corrected myself and apologized, and she said it was okay, and how she'd be fine with getting to know me more. I was like "oh cool, sounds fun." and then this one girl had called me a weirdo.
Now everyone was a weirdo in the chat so I thanked her, I know she meant it in a rude way but I wasn't going to let that ruin my day and normally when someone hates on me or makes a snotty remark I don't react. It was left at that with me and them for a moment.
I jumped back into the main talking area and started talking again and then (K) started being rude to me even more, I wasn't bothering them and was meaning no harm. But she just started attacking me, my week already hasn't been going well and this other person tried telling me to just ignore them, and I did, until K's friend joined in.
K and B started being awfully rude to me and saying I was a nuisance, and not welcomed into the server and how I was being a weirdo and wasn't minding my own business, apparently talking in the MAIN txting server was me not minding my own business??? Like, if you want to talk to this person without any interruptions then PM them, and with them saying I wasn't minding my own business, the only ones that weren't were them. No one else in the server was trying to stand up for me, so I, of course, had to deal with it on my own. I still wasn't being rude and tried to talk it out with them, assuming I first got called anything for complimenting the girl (that was why I got called a weirdo). And with these people being absolute bums to me it threw me into a panic attack.
It was just so out of the blue for some people I barely knew to attack me like that- And with me already having a horrible week so far, pushed me over the edge.
Honestly, was it needed for them to attack me??