Essentially, im inlove with my ex bsf who stabbed me in the back.

Ok, so I met her this year, new school, she saved my ass. She gave me a place to belong. And I fell 6 feet deep in love. And she was amazing. We were so clingy with eachother it was ridiculous. But i loved it. And then i apparently "hung out with someone she hated" and she stopped talking to me. She started spreading rumours that I ended our friendship, even though I thought we could make it through this. She also keeps sending me petty texts calling me toxic. Mind you, the friend i hung out with was completely cool with me being friends with the girl.(Said friend is now NOT ok with me talking to her either.) I let stuff like that get to me and she knew that. When i asked her what i did wrong, she sent me a paragraph that made ZERO sense. There were so many holes in her answer. But i can't bring myself to ve mad because my feelings never left. And I can't even tell my friends because they hate her and they'd think I was being stupid. Soooo, any word of advice?😭

SomeMichGuy · M

Feeling and relationships are vivid and hard esp. when they are some of your first ones.

The girl with whom you were in love seems to be a typical jr high/high school girl...she needs to grow up

Right now, she doesn't deserve you; she may never deserve you. It seems she might even be getting some pleasure out of mistreating you; this and her incoherence *might* mean that you were important to her, but she's just too stuck in immaturity to talk openly & plainly with *you*.

Anyone who values drama over clear communication is a waste of your time.