I'm getting sick and tired of this.

My Grandma is always comparing me to my mom. For example, I don't listen a lot and I don't do things on time, but my mom was a on task and very following person. So when I do something she tells me not to she repeatedly tells me "why can't you be like your mom" or she says "your mom listens out of her ears but idk where you listen" and she goes on and on about how my mom was like the greatest person who ever lived. I'm getting so sick and tired of this, I can't do anything with my gma. I Can't have friends, I can't stay on my phone, I can't eat without having a paper near me, I can't write stuff down, I can't sigh because it's "rude" and etc. What's next is she gonna tell me when and when I shouldn't breath?! she once said she never tells anyone what happens in her house but just last week she told people she doesnt call her friends and tells them EVERYTHING. It's like I'm a puppet in a very small castle