@Groofydorkgerdo i swear i have been with him for 4 years and is only when i was pregnant is when i saw everyone true colours. Suddenly her mother too was mildly disrespectful as well and she too is a nurse. At a point she was telling me not to touch my child while she was asleep. When i just had her. I dont know what i do to this day to get this level of hostility.

@Dragonflyii It sounds like they are WAY to controlling. There is to much hostility in his family.
Best thing I can think of advising you to do is keep. your distance physically
Text the sperm donor, giving him up dates about his baby.
That way, his family can't say you are hiding the baby out from.them

I will do that. I dont even want anyone of his family around her because they badtalk him too and suddenly they are active in his life.

@SW-User it hurts alot especially now that i have a newborn.

@Dragonflyii I can't imagine what it's like knowing you have that responsibility but don't have a strong reliable father who'll be there for you. You can't blame yourself though, it's not like you set out for things to turn out this way and it's not like anyone gets to attend training courses for relationships. I mean they don't even teach these kinds of things at high school, just math etc yet then suddenly everyone is supposed to get the whole family thing right the first time. You can only try your best. I hope things work out for you and the baby.

Thanks alot. I hope so too...

@Mizzblue42 thanks i am too my daughter deserves better

Harsh@SINAI

@Mizzblue42 thats ok. I deserve it i shouldve kept it pushing in the beginning of my pregnancy when his cousin started to harass me and not let it go this far. I really wanted a family for her because i didnt have both of my parents growing up but it wasnt meant to be. So i have to move on.

@Scribbles i wish that was real i hate feeling like this😭

@GoodoldBob thank you

@MartinTheFirst ofc i believe in god i need him now more than ever.

@SageAdvice 😂😂😂 thanks

@SageAdvice lmao