I Need to Vent

One of my brothers sent me a message on Facebook all out of the blue today. Apparently he's gotten engaged, and is getting married next summer. I assume he wants me to attend the wedding, since this is the first time he's messaged me since like, 2010.

Thing is, I don't really get along with either of my brothers, and this guy the least. I don't really want to attend his wedding, but I'm pretty sure the rest of the family would notice if I was there or not.

I don't know, my pride, pettiness and obligation are at war here.