I Do Not Need Pity, I Just Need To Vent
When we went on that trip my only wish was for you to enjoy it. That was my birthday wish. For the most part we did, you did and that made me happy. Towards the end I noticed that things were going...left. You became distant physically and your words began to run a bit dry. You finally told me what was wrong--my unresolved issues with my ex were starting to bother you and shed an image of me that wasn't quite pleasing at all.
Here's what I have to say to you:
Those encounters which I speak back to you have traumatized me so much so that I feel that I'm defined by them. Thank you for bringing it to my attention, I'm working on them now. However, my problems aren't going to disappear tomorrow just because you made light of the situation.
FGDD, understand that if you're going to be present in my life that will require you to address emotions and work with me on various levels. You have taught me that
What you may see as "too much" can be a sign that you're just "not enough". Dating anyone entails the ability to be a confidant for victories and defeats.
Here's what I have to say to you:
Those encounters which I speak back to you have traumatized me so much so that I feel that I'm defined by them. Thank you for bringing it to my attention, I'm working on them now. However, my problems aren't going to disappear tomorrow just because you made light of the situation.
FGDD, understand that if you're going to be present in my life that will require you to address emotions and work with me on various levels. You have taught me that
What you may see as "too much" can be a sign that you're just "not enough". Dating anyone entails the ability to be a confidant for victories and defeats.
26-30, F
