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I Need to Vent

I have a twin brother and today is our birthday. He has a girlfriend who is very bossy and has him wrapped around her little finger. He isn't allowed to go anywhere without her. She still lives with her parents and they stay at her parents place for weeks and weeks and when wants to go to our mother's place, his gf only allows him to stay for a couple days.
He whinges about the treatment he gets but won't stick up for himself.
I live 40 mins away from our mothers place and he is only allowed to visit me for an hour. And that's not fair on any of us. We were so close and we talked every day and he used to spend the night at my place but she has stopped that.
I miss seeing him. and when I stay at my mothers place and he's there, she won't hardly leave his side and if he's gone away from her for too long she will come find him and be very clingy.
I don't mind her, she's nice but she does seem very fake.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
My guess is that she is insecure and jealous. She wants to keep tabs on him because she is afraid he will eventually find someone else. People who like control isolate their partner from family and friends as a first step.
Dreamprojector · 26-30, F
@lasergraph It sure does feel that way
iamnikki · 31-35, F
That seems odd. And weird. She seems possessive.
Dreamprojector · 26-30, F
@iamnikki yeah she does
ScrewThisImDone · 26-30, F
I'd recommend trying to make him dump her insecure butt, though it sounds like she's the type to completely lose it if the guy leaves her, so I'm not really sure what the best option would be in this case.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Whose worse - the controlling girlfriend or the brother who submits to it? She won’t get better. Can’t you get one of your friends to seduce him and blow the whole thing up? (Bad me...)
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
this is why i ate my twin bro while still in the womb. (chimera)

saved me much time.
Dreamprojector · 26-30, F
His girlfriend said she doesnt want to stay with us because she only wants to sleep in her bed, but wont let richard out of her sight. Thats what she told me 8 hrs ago

 
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