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I Need to Vent

from 14 years old i had nothing to do with my dad, for reasons i won’t go into - let’s just say he had a history of putting alcohol and women before his own kids. so from 14 i was dadless but my sister would still go see him often. then at 22 i found my half brother on facebook (we have the same dad), he eventually moved over here and we were close. that half brother tried to rape me and ended up in prison for it. this is the event that bought the family back together and i started seeing my dad again regularly. we had years to make up for... plus my dad had been diagnosed with Vascular Dementia so i know there’s a high chance some day he won’t even remember who i am. me and my dad really have been close over the last few years, after the whole half brother thing, he was there when i had my huge breakdown the other year... and now it comes to light that dad is stealing money from family members and spending it on alcohol and going to the pub. he’s drink driving (again - before the dementia he was caught drink driving and banned for a while. he was an alcoholic). my step mum is questioning if she even wants him in her life still. i’m questining the same. i love my step mum and i love my dad but he’s stealing off family - and when confronted LIES ABOUT IT. fucking lies. his dementia makes him unpredictable as it is, he can get really aggressive especially after having an operation recently as the anesthetic can make dementia sufferers worse. i don’t know, it’s just all a mess. it’s like this family can never catch a fucking break.

edit: i’ve just found out that he hasn’t been home since we confronted him about the stealing last night. he’s been sleeping in his car somewhere. this is ridiculous
Tonydang · M
Such a sad story I'm so sorry not sure I can help but if you ever need to chat I'm happy to lend a ear
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
I think there is only one answer ... If he can't be responsible then you guys have to look after yourselves ..
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
Sorry for you Pineapple, there's so much shit in life...
SW-User
I'm sorry Pineapple. Relatable. 🤗
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