Everytime I try to hook up my friend with a woman he gets upset and says he's going to

It's quite possible that he doesn't want your help. And you're coming across as pushy.

@Lulujeans perhaps he is not bothered at this present time and not appreciative of what you are trying too do . i understand you have his best interests at heart but he may think you are interferring and sticking your nose into his business

You're pushing too hard/he doesn't want your help, just your support

Maybe he wants you?

because he wants you

Because it's not your place to mess with his life.

Has he ever had a date before that he got in his own?

Most likely he wants you.