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I Am Upset

2 days ago during dinner, my mum was talking on the phone with a guy she met on social network app living next block, whom she s known for more than a year now. She was talking to him that she hung the towels all over the windows because there's no space for drying clothes. The mobile was loud and I heard clearly that the guy asked if she hung her panties there too and what colors were they. My mother said her sister bought her panties and they were all pink and purple.

I shouted: don't you think this conversation has problems?

She s been scolding me via message app whole day yesterday for being impolite and disrespectful to her and her so-called friend. I told my cousin and she talked to my mother, my mother denied to her that she had that conversation with the guy and accused me of making it up, and alleged that she would prosecute me for slandering her and her friend. Today I have forgotten to bring my phone to work. I wonder how many scolding and insulting messages I would get from her when I turn on the phone at home tonight.

At this moment I wish my mother would just die now and stop making chaos.
novembermoon · 51-55
It must be hard and totally awful. You must be so upset. I think if I were you, I would find it really difficult to live with her. The things you said to your mom, I don't think I would ever say them, but it would fester, and become worse maybe. At times, I have asked if I am the adult and my father were the child, because I see the immaturity in his behaviour too. The things that our elders do are foolish sometimes and they do not realise it. I hope you feel better writing it out.
Sssslm · F
thank you Novembermoon, and Cierzo, it seems that there are not many people who understand what i meant nowadays.
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Silverlady · 70-79, F
Sounds like you need to get your own place or mom should move out. My daughter was very abusive to me, she finally moved out. Best day of my life.
Crusher69 · 61-69, M
Just let it be - life is to short. Sounds like your Mum and the chap were flirting with each other, and she probably found it embarrassing that you overheard her so she probably defended herself. Let her have her fun - sounds pretty harmless and at the end if the day she is your Mum so make the most of your time with her...
Sssslm · F
we are worried that she s hanging out with indecent guys and gets harmed.
Crusher69 · 61-69, M
Yes that is always a worry and must be a big concern for you. Maybe sit down and have an honest discussion about your fears - a compromise is better than butting heads together - but you know your Mum best. Good luck!
Cierzo · M
I understand your concern, and you show you care about your mother, but better let it be, she is responsible for her own life.
Maybe you should let your mom have a little fun in her lifetime too and quit judging her.
Trysta09 · 46-50, F
Sounds like you need to get a life of your own so your mom can live hers.
Leave your mom be
AnneGena · 26-30, F
Wishing your own mother to die is sad.

 
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