how do you handle the times in life where you're trying your hardest to deal with problems which crop up

so i'm trying to deal with numerous problems in life which have cropped up, because of other people's fault, not my fault, and i'm trying to work through the problems, then when you're on the verge of resolving one problem....another problem is thrown at me or presented to me, again because of the fault of somebody else? nothing to do with me....it's like life now is just full of strife and problems, and you're not meant to be happy or at peace....or if you do find peace of mind, it's not for long, because then something else happens?

then you question why this is happening to you?

but back to now, i'm dealing with numerous problems which have cropped up recently, which are really hard and stressful, then just as i just about resolved one problem, another problem has arisen because of someone else?

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Pineapple · 100+, F Best Comment

relatable! not the person to give you advice because i’m not the best at dealing with problems but just wanted you to know that you aren’t alone and i relate whole heartedly.
i either don’t care as much as i should about a problem, and very laid back… what will be will be, i don’t care, one day at a time kind of vibe.
or i care too much and start spiralling out of control. neither is advisable way to deal.
but i’m also bipolar, so, ya know…. at least you don’t have that to deal with 😂 i assume (?)

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@Pineapple hi, no i have a personality disorder, that's my diagnosis, but i deal with other things under that umbrella, like anxiety, anger problems at times, paranoia as well - i honestly believe i'm doing my best dealing with my situation, i can't do no more....my mother also always advises ' one day at a time, no one's promised tomorrow' - and that is the best way and that's how i'm trying to take things now, takes the pressure off doing it like that....but dealing with a PD it can make managing your emotions hard a times, so it is an all round difficult challenge right now....but like you mentioned and as i get told a lot ' one day at a time', that's how i'll do it, best wishes dealing with your problems and thanks for answering.👍🏻

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

Yea life is getting tougher for everyone. Dealing with problems it helps to have close friends.

Jenny1234 · 56-60, M

Make a list in order of importance and deal with one at a time

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@Jenny1234 that's what my mother and loved ones are advising me, one step at a time, just deal with one thing at a time, making a list is a good idea too, all great ideas, i'll do that and just do my best as i can't do anymore.

QuietReverie

If it’s their problem, I didn’t deal with it, I move on and don’t allow it to bother me.

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