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Have you ever stayed in a relation just because you are too afraid to break his/her heart?

Breaking up with someone or being honest about your feelings is not everyone good at. Were you?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
No. When it's over, it's not fair to keep someone hanging on.
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Yeah… I didn’t want to see her in a bad place
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Yes, I've stayed in a relationship because of that.
I wasn't raised to be authentic with my feelings. There was a heavy price to pay if I were.

But, it's gotten much better lately. It HAD to.
There's no true relationship, with myself or anyone else, without it.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Yes and it made the inevitable even more painful.
Curvyvixen · 36-40, F
@Starcrossed still in it?
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@Curvyvixen not that one, something far far more complicated with many more years invested.
Curvyvixen · 36-40, F
@Starcrossed wanna talk about it?
Moondreaming · 46-50, F
It's very difficult to make that step you know is going to hurt someone who has been mostly good to you.
ANightWithNoMoon · 31-35, M
Yes. And I wish I didn’t lack the courage back then. Ended up hurting them even more
Lostpoet · M
That's never stopped anyone that i know. 🥺
Dshhh · M
it is more cruel to pretend
Oh God yes. This was pretty a big thing in my life recently. It's not even this simple, there were extra layers that made it damn near impossible to get out of. Even now, I'm unsure if what I did was right, but I had the best intentions.
dimfok · 22-25, M
Stayed for a few months longer. Then broke up. In the end, breaking up was the wise choice and I should have done it sooner
SW-User
Sometimes you have to push away, for the sake of each other's sanities. It may not always be personal
ravenhill · 46-50, M
nope, i don't feel obligated by anybody.
Thankfully not. That's a toxic relationship.
Nope I break up really easy.
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Can't say that I have
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Donna15 · 41-45, F
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
eyeno · M
https://similarworlds.com/relationships/4263027-Absolutely-No-Regrets-Matters-of-the-Heart-Once

 
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