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How would you feel if someone you broke up with years ago still tried act like you were together in public?

Calling us “we” and touching me when I’ve asked not to be touched.

I’m not a violent person but I kinda want to punch him in the face.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
That wouldnt fly. And in a hurry.
Once in a blue moon i meet up with my husband he will still call me his wife and joke around about it and i an not much fazed ,i just laugh it off. I dont think he deserves a reaction and i honestly dont really have one either
@BrokenAbyss make a scene
@PepsiColaP Truth. If it happens again I will. I left a wedding I didn’t want to cause a scene. Arguing in parking lots isn’t doing the trick I guess.
@BrokenAbyss I understand. it isnt comfortable. but do it once, and they will learn
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Try a pda with a new date in front of him. He’ll get the message then.
@Adogslife He knows I’m out having a good time. He knows, but he won’t stop. He won’t listen to me.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@BrokenAbyss That level of ignorance is concerning. If you’re not at risk, I’d suggest talking to his best friend and telling him to tell your ex to step down/stop being a creep. If he’s further gone than that, like you feel you’re at risk, then I’d go with a restraining order.
@Adogslife That’s a good idea actually. Sad part is I don’t know what he’s been saying to people and I feel I will just cause drama, which I really don’t care for. I don’t think the cops are going to care, I’ve been in worse situations and been told, “oh well”… I’ll just keep hiding from them I guess.
Lemony1199 · F
He needed to be punched so he do understand that 🙄.
@Lemony1199 Seriously getting to that point
Belladonna · 41-45, F
First, I'd tell him off. Then, I'd ghost him.
GLITTER · 36-40, F
That’s weird
@GLITTER yeah I’m close to getting pissed
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@BrokenAbyss maybe a clean break is necessary, do something shocking so he doesn’t try it again
REMsleep · 41-45, F
I would have called him out on it immediately saying something like.
"Stop, you are going to make my boyfriend jealous" or "We!, does this mean that you will be paying for my food and drinks tonight".
Or I would have thrown in, " Remb way back when we dated?, what year was that"?
@REMsleep Yeah. I’m not one to cause a scene. I’ve just been (mostly) politely telling him for years and this past time we did get into it in the parking lot but I doubt he’ll ever get it. It’s been years of me telling him NO.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@BrokenAbyss Why do you hang out with him so often? This can give mixed signals as well. Maybe some distance will let him know that you are serious.
@REMsleep I don’t, this happened at a wedding and other get togethers of mutual friends.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
That's not acceptable behavior on his part. Any anger or frustration you feel towards it pretty justified.
@ViciDraco Thank you. It’s been so persistent over the years I felt I was to blame. But now it makes me nauseous how honest I’ve been, yet completely disregarded and disrespected.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Poor guy.. it sounds like he misses being yours
@MartinTheFirst So what?! That doesn’t give him the right to touch me when I’ve told him not to.
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