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I’ve had a very crap start to 2019 so far , it started with oversleeping due to my bad stomach and perdiods , then I got up and decided I needed to clean out my guinea pigs cage. My dad knows I need to clean it out everyday or clean it miss a day then clean it as I don’t always get time or the chance to do it everyday. Well I came down stairs and I said I need to clean out his cage and I need to boil two kettles full of water , this is so I can get rid of the germs and get rid of the smell and the mess. Then my dad decided to have a massive go at me saying he doesn’t care about my guinea pig and doesn’t care if it dies and says he’s sick of me wasting electric on him and that he doesn’t even want a guinea pig or anything to do with him and that he doesn’t even like animals. I tried to explain that I rather use more then have a dead animal , then he started threatening me saying he’s going to take most of my money off me if I get any , and refused to give me back my bank card. He keeps hold of my bank card all the time and keeps checking my account so I made him give it me back after he threatened to cut it up to stop me from using it and said I was irresponsible and incapable of looking after my own card. I don’t mind putting money towards the electric in fact I was planning on doing so as soon as I got a part time job and got back into college , but he started accusing me of telling my mum crap about him and accusing me of causing trouble between them. He even started throwing plastic bottles at me and nearly hit me and was close to doing it until I calmed him down. And he even is trying to stop me from driving and paying to learn as soon as I get a job saying I’m incapable yet I need the car to be able to move to university which he’s trying hard to talk me out of going to and he keeps saying living alone isn’t what you think it is. And gets mad when I mention it. I don’t care what he says as in three years time after studying level 2 art at college and two years of A level art I’m going to apply for university in a completely different city and I’m going to pay someone to help me move my stuff into there. I’m thinking of London or oxford university as far away from him as possible. If I get the right opportunity then I’m going for it.
Gusman · 56-60, MVIP
Well done. Become independent and move away from your Father. Everyone eventually moves out of home so do not be afraid of that.
No way should he ever have had your bank card. Have you checked the transactions? Was he sometimes using your card?
Anyway, good luck with your move and I hope you enjoy University
Sorry this is happening to you. 😞 I think you should go for it. The farther the better.
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
sounds like a plan get your life sorted how you want it

 
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