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I Hate My Life

SO, I have an MSc Medical Physics. Not very useful it turns out, unless you can afford to train - and kept up to date with it.
I have a degree in Physics - 2:2 - not worth the paper it's on apparently.
I can use Office applications, including basic VBA to automate KPI monitoring and lock down spreadsheets.
I can use AutoDesk Inventor to produce General Assembly drawings and detailed manufacturing diagrams.
I created the CAD data section of our ISO 9001 quality management system and had loads of good ideas that were implemented to reduce quality issues and increase efficiency.
I have experience in New Product Introduction, from cradle to grave - working with international standards, precision engineering experts and international experts in the field of medical physics. This was all in person and by email/phone.
I got a double pay increment (from £19 to 21k a year) one time because I'd contributed so many new products and saved the firm a shedload by persuading them to invest in CAD (and, therefore, me).

So why am I a failing shift manager at McDonald's, working a crazy ass randomly generated schedule that's killing me so bad I left my bike outside the back gate last night (forgetting to bring it in) and it got nicked?

It's not for lack of applications. Quality applications, I've been told by more than one careers advisor. I had one interview this hiring season (it's January in the UK). They chose someone with more current CAD knowledge for a physicsy application, rather than the guy with a masters in a physicsy subject.

I've traveled to South Africa (in the bush) and volunteered there upgrading their server and PC's, teaching them housekeeping and leaving them tools to help their data collection.

I have an innate ability to listen to someone's troubles, leave my own life, mentally live theirs and within about a second have the perfect answer tailored for them, so they can understand it, see the potential outcome, and often execute it and thank me after. I call it the groundwork of life - most people take it for granted, they haven't admitted anything's dramatically wrong, it just comes out at me and I happen to fix it for them, and they carry on living seamlessly as if nothing was ever wrong. Only I have actually witnessed the pain it was causing them, and only I know the benefit I've had. Quite often it works that way. But there's no career in that, it doesn't exist to my knowledge. Not without an expensive training course and the risk of not being able to pay back that loan when I'm already broke.

I support (mostly mentally and raising awareness) multiple causes - zero waste, organic food, sustainable agriculture and packaging, anti-nuclear (think Fukushima's latest leaks!!), anti-extreme capitalism, rain forest protection, keeping our NHS public and creating a decent state-owned infrastructure, real education (logical thinking, intuition), etc.

I just wish I could find a place in the world, working towards one of these causes. And I also wish I could become a better shift manager right now - and not work this crazy schedule. I wish my back wasn't killing me 24-7 because of bad mattress choices (although one was £500 and one was £60, they both have the same results).

I'm slowly dying here, feeling stuck, lost and alone although I am engaged to be married and looking to buy a house together! And I should definitely be asleep right now because I'm on the overnight tonight. z_z

Anyone got any bright ideas out there?
Anyone at all.
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GeniUs · 56-60, M
What happened to the job where you produced the goods?
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
I went to South Africa for 2 years and they couldn't hold the position open. I actually earnt the same there as I do now, until the last few months (I was at that job for 4 years, been at this one 2 years).

Thanks for asking.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Hopefully you've left them your CV and hopefully some of them remember you. Alternatively (and this isn't for everybody) I recommend joining the forces(with a commission); with a degree, an ounce of sense and reasonable fitness levels it would be a walk in the park, brings decent money in, excellent training (a lot of people join just to up skill themselves) and is generally a really enjoyable job.
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
@GeniUs: Haha yes, they remember me. My boss hated me but I was too good at my job to do anything about it.

Thank you for investing your thoughts in me. I really appreciate it. I have vaguely considered the Forces before, in no small part because I've met quite a few older retired Forces people and they are some of the nicest it's possible to meet. I could also use a little push to develop my athletic body into a fit, strong athletic body. At the age of 30 though, I have my doubts...

Upskilling to an MSc engineering would be pretty snazzy though, and a whole lot more useful than physics!
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Look into it, I did 30 years as a ranker great times (most of it), with a degree you'd need to join as an officer, if you have any sporting prowess they love it! The fitness standards aren't unattainable I'm 51 and reckon I could still walk it and if you do join you'll be amazed at the numbers of people who let themselves go physically once they feel comfortable in the job. I'd say go RAF if you're a bit soft like me but the navy has more potential for adventure and money (sea pay), army well you need a different mentality!
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
@GeniUs: Well, thank you very much! I have nothing really sports-wise, but I could get back into badminton and see where that takes me. The problem has always been random scheduling meaning no regular partner and being unable to play at a regular club. But thank you for the inspiration, it's definitely an angle I'd not seriously looked into before.
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
@GeniUs: Oh. Instant exclusion by medical from the RAF: I no longer have an appendix. https://www.raf.mod.uk/recruitment/media/2258/20170215-medical-conditions-that-preclude-entry-raf.pdf

Thank you, though!
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Wow, I definitely have 2 failings on the list and 2 other possibles :L
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
Life's tough these days hey. I had to remind myself if the spleen was in fact the appendix, and in doing so discovered why I still have my cold from before Christmas! Definitely stocking up on whatever pre or post biotics they are recommending these days, and some vitamin D! At least that's one thing I now understand. Again, thanks to you if it weren't for your comments here I'd not have found out :)