Having dealt with a lot of death, I am just going to say something that might be a little controversial.
It is common to feel like going through the belongings of a loved one after they are gone, to understand or have a closure.. etc
And sometimes you will find things you would have never expected from your loved one , but understand that the shame has to do with your own lack of reconciliation with people's imperfections..
They watch porn, they have a lover from the US who likes spanking.....etc etc
Unless it harms you specifically, better let such information die with them. It doesn't matter what you think of their secrets and it wasn't about you.
Speaking of which I have to delete my history.
And sometimes you will find things you would have never expected from your loved one , but understand that the shame has to do with your own lack of reconciliation with people's imperfections..
They watch porn, they have a lover from the US who likes spanking.....etc etc
Unless it harms you specifically, better let such information die with them. It doesn't matter what you think of their secrets and it wasn't about you.
Speaking of which I have to delete my history.
