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yestestvennaya I guess you have seen it in action if you have had to care for aging patients.
But yeah, the older we get, the more thoughts cross our minds.
With those close to us, the best thing we can do is end each interaction on a positive note. Not holding grudges, not trying to get the last word. It doesn't mean we need to have some sobby lovey moment at each end, but just wrap up disagreements quickly. Even a "Alright, yeah we will talk tomorrow" suffices.
With those I have cared for and lost, luckily our last interactions were positive. I cannot imagine being in a fight and later hear that something happened and we never got to say "I am sorry".
But yeah with Kirk, there's a lot of heated debates about that situation. I prefer to keep my own off this thread cause yeah, a lot of strong opinions on both sides.
