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"Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that is troublesome." - Isaac Asimov

I have recently watched someone that was very close to me die. I guess it can be said their transition was fast as it only lasted for a few days, but those few days at their side felt like they were without end. Watching the suffering and hoping their mind was far away from it. Trying to give them reassurances that almost made me feel selfish in a way. Wishing for the end so that they could just rest. The end finally comes...and there is a peace to it. There is emotional trauma that almost feels crippling. I wonder if the mind ever moves past it or if it's just learning to adapt. Perhaps it's starting with the comfort that their trauma has past.
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I work in the medical field, and have had more patients of all ages die in front of me , than I could possibly count. The hardest ones for me, are when we are doing so-called “heroic measures”, when it’s clear that they’re not going to work…or worse, after a long period of resuscitation, they do work. I’ve often thought, or said out loud, “I’m not sure if we have done them any favors”. While I have seen some miraculous pull-throughs, the majority are exercises in futility (depending on the cause and circumstances of the arrest).
I am very sorry.
Northwest · M
Sorry for your loss
YoMomma ·
It's a relief to escape the system especially the medical one 😏

 
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