Another 2.5 hours 😪

How was your night?

Spent another evening meticulously going through my dead father's paperwork. This old man saved the dumbest shit. SO many folders with just one random bill or statement from the 2000-2010s, manuals for products that been in the dump for years, or a one off receipt for some house decoration you couldn't return and wasn't worth anything of value.

Whhhyyyy Dad, just why!?

And where TF are my two siblings in this process. Especially the one with no job at the moment.

I'm tired.

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beermeplease · M

i feel for you...i recently dealt with all my mom's stuff but i had a brother who helped...but yeah, it's tough

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@beermeplease unfortunately my brother had had back to back work and military training events that necessitated he be out of state for the past few weeks. Our much older half sister apparently decided she helped enough. Or something else. Who knows what's going on with her but she hasn't been to my dad's since we all went after the burial. I guess making the photo boards and the few hours bagging up his clothes and emptying the fridge was enough for her. She won't even get his mail and lives 10 minutes closer than I.

beermeplease · M

@Starcrossed there will be an end to this...but remember family is family and try not to think about the negativity...you will heal and you need to know you did well 🫂