I am The Keeper of Secrets
I don't know how I became this.
I never asked to be.
But I seem to be the person men tell their most devious sexual secrets to.
I'm told it is because I'm not judgemental and that I'm easy to talk to. That I provide a safe space for them to feel they can tell me anything.
May I just say this:
1) Yes, I am judging you. You decided to tell me something that I never consented to hearing or wanting to know about you. Yes, that absolutely does make me look at you differently since you've now shown me, I'm not a person to you, I'm a repository that you don't have to respect. You now feel you can just dump your most hidden guilts and pleasures without care of what I wanted.
Truth: I wanted to know you considered me a partner and someone you respect and care about. You now ruined that.
2) Honestly, I don't share my sexual experiences because they are mine. Whether I enjoyed them or not doesn't matter to anyone but me. If you ask, and I think it is because you want to know me better and not to gauge what you think you can get from me, I might tell you.
Truth: Yes, I've been the F in a MFM sandwich and yes, it was amazing, but not for the reasons one might think.
3) I promise you, there is literally *nothing* you can tell me about your perversion that will shock me. In fact, I don't talk about my sexual knowledge because I really don't think anyone could really understand or even wrap their brains around some of the things I'm aware of. Do I have these fetishes? Maybe. That's for me to know.
Truth: You wanting your sister to be fucked by her pet is gross, but not shocking. You should probably seek some help for that beastiality fetish because that's not healthy, nor does it illustrate you understand what consent is or why it is important, but the humility kink isn't new. It's actually pretty boring
So, I'm asking. Maybe begging. Don't share your sexual secrets with me. It never leads anywhere good with me. It usually leads to me blocking you because I have just become a receptacle to you and no longer a person.
At least ask me if you can tell me a sexual secret about you. I don't know what will happen because no one has ever had the common decency to ask before they dump it on me.
I never asked to be.
But I seem to be the person men tell their most devious sexual secrets to.
I'm told it is because I'm not judgemental and that I'm easy to talk to. That I provide a safe space for them to feel they can tell me anything.
May I just say this:
1) Yes, I am judging you. You decided to tell me something that I never consented to hearing or wanting to know about you. Yes, that absolutely does make me look at you differently since you've now shown me, I'm not a person to you, I'm a repository that you don't have to respect. You now feel you can just dump your most hidden guilts and pleasures without care of what I wanted.
Truth: I wanted to know you considered me a partner and someone you respect and care about. You now ruined that.
2) Honestly, I don't share my sexual experiences because they are mine. Whether I enjoyed them or not doesn't matter to anyone but me. If you ask, and I think it is because you want to know me better and not to gauge what you think you can get from me, I might tell you.
Truth: Yes, I've been the F in a MFM sandwich and yes, it was amazing, but not for the reasons one might think.
3) I promise you, there is literally *nothing* you can tell me about your perversion that will shock me. In fact, I don't talk about my sexual knowledge because I really don't think anyone could really understand or even wrap their brains around some of the things I'm aware of. Do I have these fetishes? Maybe. That's for me to know.
Truth: You wanting your sister to be fucked by her pet is gross, but not shocking. You should probably seek some help for that beastiality fetish because that's not healthy, nor does it illustrate you understand what consent is or why it is important, but the humility kink isn't new. It's actually pretty boring
So, I'm asking. Maybe begging. Don't share your sexual secrets with me. It never leads anywhere good with me. It usually leads to me blocking you because I have just become a receptacle to you and no longer a person.
At least ask me if you can tell me a sexual secret about you. I don't know what will happen because no one has ever had the common decency to ask before they dump it on me.
