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Confession: I might be a predator

Since I'm seen as a female physically, I never saw this as an issue, but I know better know, and should have when there things happened.


I've been raised to think that all men are only interrested in one thing, so every time a man told me he wasn't interrested in that, I assumed he was lying and/or playing hard to get.

Long story short: I've convinced men to have intercourse with me even after they said no. And on a couple of occations I've touched myself while calling them even when they explicity told me not to.

This is something I'm deeply ashamed of.

No means no, regardless of gender and relationship. I aim to become a better human being, and by admitting to all of this, I hope others will see that harrasment goes both ways.

I am so sorry for my actions and take responsibility.
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Anthony450 · 31-35, M
It’s good that you’ve recognized it. I’ve been pressured into things by both genders, because I’m seen as passive generally, and I tend to be a people pleaser who doesn’t want to disappoint someone even if I’ve said no and have body language of not being interested. But some don’t see that and don’t want to.

Harassment can certainly come from anyone and part of being a sexual partner (even if it’s casual) is listening and treating the other person like they have as much agency as you.