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Confession of a former EP newbie know it all

There is always one or two know- it- alls that make an appearance in the new members roll call
They rub people the wrong way with their unwavering opinions on every subject, inflexiabilty to consider other people's ideas,(listening doesn't equal adoption of ideas) concern about kindness ,but only as it applies to themselves.
And are mostly blissfully unaware they are doing so.

When I think of my first year on Experience Project, I cringe at my self proclaimed guru of life ways.

I am still not against recieving and giving advice or suggestions when warranted
But ,nobody wants to be told what they should think.

I have strong opinions and beliefs , but I have matured incredibly since those crazy EP days.
I can scroll past things I don't agree with or after giving an opinion feel no need to go into twenty pages defending it where someone disagrees ,nor do I necessarily change my mind, although I have on occasion.

Had a good friend talk to me, straighten me out; in the most kindest of ways, glad I listened
Nobody likes a know- it -all .
MsSwan Best Comment
Congratulations, you have grown as a human being. Not many people can say that.

You have achieved the ability to see yourself from an outside perspective, and have the courage to make changes, where needed. ❤️
@Justmeraeagain We will always have things to change, because we're not perfect.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@MsSwan Of course we can't be 😊
@Justmeraeagain Thanks for Best Comment 🙂

BlueVeins · 22-25
[quote]There is always one or two know- it- alls that make an appearance in the new members roll call
They rub people the wrong way with their unwavering opinions on every subject, inflexiabilty to consider other people's ideas,(listening doesn't equal adoption of ideas) concern about kindness ,but only as it applies to themselves. And are mostly blissfully unaware they are doing so.[/quote]

🙋‍♂️
Nimbus · M
Experience be it good or bad and learnt from brings wisdom.
Add maturity for an added bonus :)
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Nimbus True
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
I try not to come across that way but I know I am not everyone's cup of tea because I don't sugar coat and sometimes i lack the ability to just walk away from certain things
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@LilPrincess I believe I have changed.
I am a pretty straight talker but I tried to be kind about it
I think this is one of the reasons i appreciate this place.....its helped me reflect upon myself.
Ive done EXACTLY the same .

But....like you, have learnt to let go such a tight hold on the reigns and let shit pass me by.

I don't want to ingrain myself to end up one of those people who come here purely to argue ......usually about the same stuff, over and over again.

Its a pitiful existence.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Calling DippyJoe and Emoboar.....😅
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@OogieBoogie I only talk for myself.

I don't like to call people out.
I understand the frustration with certain users.
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@OogieBoogie you never know what's going to happen in this place if you call somebody out, even if they fit the description or have caused problems, it's your profile that might end up with the warning.
But you didn't offend me

 
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